Ephesians 5:1-2
Be imitators of God, therefore, as
dearly loved children and live a life of love, just as Christ loved us and gave
himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God.
We live
in a world that has divorced character from public life, especially when it
comes to those who are chosen to take positions of leadership. Nowhere has this
been more evident than in the political upheaval of recent years. We have been
willing to place people into positions of significant leadership who have
questionable characters because publicly they have promised us what we want. The
lesson we have not yet learned is that character and public performance go hand
in hand. Character shapes everything that a person does for good or ill. If a
person’s character is faulty, them their actions will be faulty as well.
As
disturbing as it is to realize that we have entrust the leadership of our
country to people with questionable character, it is far more disturbing when
we discover we have done this within the church as well. I have been listening
to a challenging podcast from Christianity Today which exposes the fall of some
prominent Christian leaders and the reasons behind their fall. One of the
common threads that winds its ways through each of these stories is the lack of
a well-developed spiritual character. People have been placed in positions of
influence based on their giftedness before their character was ready to handle
them. Each of them had amazing “success” for a season, but then had a tragic
fall when the reality of their character broke through the façade of
giftedness. Character matters far more than outward giftedness.
Jesus
made that clear in Luke 6:43-45. "No good tree bears bad fruit, nor
does a bad tree bear good fruit. Each tree is recognized by its own fruit.
People do not pick figs from thornbushes, or grapes from briers. The good man
brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and the evil man
brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For out of the
overflow of his heart his mouth speaks.
James
highlighted this reality when he pointed out that the origin of sin is within
us, not outside of us. When tempted, no one should say, "God is
tempting me." For God cannot be tempted by evil, nor does he tempt anyone;
but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and
enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when
it is full-grown, gives birth to death. (James 1:13-15)
Deeply
embedded in Jesus’ sermon on the mount is the truth that character matters. We
can put on a false front but if our heart is not right the truth will
eventually come to light. So, Paul challenges us to do some spiritual house
cleaning. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander,
along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one another,
forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. (Ephesians 4:31-32)
The
point is not for us to become character police for others, but to take an
honest look at our own character. What allows us to place people with flawed
character into positions of authority is our own flawed character. When we develop
a truly godly character we are blessed with the gift of discernment.
Discernment is not sitting in judgement of others, but the ability to recognize
when things are not right. Discernment can raise a red flag to stop us from
moving forward, or a yellow flag that cautions us to slow down. Godly discernment
causes us to treat others with kindness and compassion, rather than judgement
and criticism.
Paul
gave us sound advice when we encounter those who may be headed in the wrong
direction, whether they are a leader or a follower. Brothers, if someone is
caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch
yourself, or you also may be tempted. (Galatians 6:1) A person with a godly
character will always seek to correct and restore the other person rather than
punish them.
As I
have listened to these podcasts about fallen leaders, it has caused me to
examine my own character. There is the temptation for me to take some delight
or pleasure in their fall, but that is the wrong response. My first response
should be to grieve, both for the fallen leader and for the Church. Then I need
to look carefully at my own character and ministry. Where have I strayed into a
spiritual ego trip that has caused damage to others’ walk with Christ? Where
have I sought my own glory instead of the glory of God? How can I discipline
myself so that my character is growing more and more Christlike? Ultimately, at
the end of the day, character matters far more than a façade of outward
success. God’s will for us is not that we would be successful, but that we
would be whole and holy.
Colossians 1:9-10
For this
reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you
and asking God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all spiritual
wisdom and understanding. And we pray this in order that you may live a life
worthy of the Lord and may please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good
work, growing in the knowledge of God,