Romans 2:1 (NIV)
You, therefore, have no excuse, you who pass judgment on someone else, for
at whatever point you judge the other, you are condemning yourself, because you
who pass judgment do the same things.
I am a
recovering legalist. I say recovering because I am keenly aware that I have not
conquered this flaw in my life. I was reminded of this as I drove into my
office this morning.
I have a
45-minute commute between my home and the church where I am serving currently. Often
those are the most frustrating 45 minutes of my day. When I get on the freeway,
I pull into the righthand lane and set my cruise control at 70 mph. Before long
someone comes whizzing by me at a speed considerably greater than the speed
limit. This does not happen once, but multiple times on my commute. Not only do
I encounter people exceeding the speed limit, but I also have noticed an
alarming number of people who are using their cell phones while they are
speeding past me, even though it is against the law. We have had some bad
weather lately; fog, snow, rain, low visibility. On one commute during these conditions,
I counted over 20 cars without their headlights on. All these things, and a few
more, cause me to be frustrated. I often make audible comments to my fellow
commuters, which of course they cannot hear.
One day
God tapped me on the shoulder and reminded me that I was being a legalist. Have
you never exceeded the speed limit? Have you never been distracted while you
were driving? Have you never cut someone off unintentionally? Have you never
failed to yield to another driver? Have you never forgotten to turn on your
headlights? The obvious answer to all of these questions is no.
I grew
up a legalist. No one formally taught me to be a legalist, I just picked it up
on my own. Somehow, I fell into the trap of works righteousness. I felt that I
had to keep all the rules for God to accept me. I worked hard to be a rule
keeper and routinely beat myself up when I failed. But I did something else as
well. I started applying the rules, as I saw them, to others. I began judging
others by how well they kept the rules.
I have
worked hard to break free from this trap. I have learned to accept God’s grace
and recognize that there is nothing I can do to earn it. I have become more
gracious with others when they see theological issues differently than I do. I
have learned to extend grace to others more freely. But I still have a long way
to go. My daily commute is a daily reminder that I have not arrived.
Paul
addressed this same issue with some of the people in the church at Rome. In
Romans 1, Paul outlined the state of his fallen world. He painted a pretty
bleak picture. There were those in the church who were probably applauding Paul’s
words. They were standing in line to be some of the first to cast stones at
those evil doers. Then Paul turned the tables on them. He challenged them to
look in the mirror. What right did they have to judge others when they were
doing the same things? I don’t think that Paul was saying that they were
engaged in the evil acts he had just outlined, but that they were sinning in
other ways. They were really no different. They had missed the point that no
one can earn God’s favor by keeping the Law. It is totally a free gift of His
grace.
Romans 2:2-4 (NIV)
Now we know that God's judgment against those who do such things is based on
truth. So when you, a mere man, pass judgment on them and yet do the same
things, do you think you will escape God's judgment? Or do you show contempt
for the riches of his kindness, tolerance and patience, not realizing that
God's kindness leads you toward repentance?
There is
no doubt that God is concerned about sin. But it is not my job to be the
accuser of others. I have enough sin of my own to account for. Praise God that
He is gracious and that if we come to Him in genuine repentance, He will
forgive us and cleanse us from all unrighteousness.
God has
been teaching me to be less judgmental and more gracious toward others. I have
made significant progress, but I have not arrived. I am reminded every time I get
on the freeway.
Matthew 7:1-5 (NIV)
“Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge
others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured
to you. Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother's eye and pay
no attention to the plank in your own eye? How can you say to your brother,
'Let me take the speck out of your eye,' when all the time there is a plank in
your own eye? You hypocrite, first take the plank out of your own eye, and then
you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother's eye.”