The
Christian life is a team sport, yet we often act as if it were a solo event.
Every successful football, baseball, hockey, or basketball team has to develop
effective teamwork. If one player focuses on himself, the entire team suffers.
Teams spend hours and hours learning to work well together. Every player has to
not only learn their role, but how they connect with the other players. No one
plays a team sport in a vacuum.
If
we are going to be successful in our Christian life, we need to learn some
spiritual teamwork. We have been called to be a part of something that is
bigger than ourselves. In I Corinthians 12, Paul reminds us that we are part of
God’s team. Paul refers to this team as the body of Christ. Now
you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it. (1
Corinthians 12:27)
Every team
has a training regimen that strengthens the individual player and trains them
to work together. God has given to us His spiritual training regimen in His
Word. These spiritual team-building exercises are identified by the phrase “one
another.” These “one another passages” give us the daily exercises we need to
be the spiritual athletes that God has called us to be.
The
foundation for God’s team-building regimen is found in John 13:34-35. "A
new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love
one another. By this all men will know that you are my disciples, if you love
one another."
An essential
for any team to be successful is team cohesion. The players on the team need to
be committed to the team and their teammates. If there is dissention on the
team, it will not be able to preform at its best. A player who focuses only on
his performance will hurt the whole team. A player that actively helps another
player advance will enhance the whole team.
It
is the same with the church. As members of the Body of Christ, we need to be
first committed to Christ and then committed to one another. Dissension and spiritual
showboating will always weaken the church. Jesus raised the bar of expectation
when He said that we are love one another with the same sacrificial love that
He has loved us. The various “one another” passages give us some practical
examples of what it looks like to truly love one another.
Live
in harmony with one another. Do not be proud, but be willing to associate with
people of low position. Do not be conceited. (Romans 12:16)
There
is a lot of class and social divide in our country and in our world. As
Christians we have been called to bridge those gaps by humbly extending our
hand of friendship to others.
Accept
one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God. (Romans 15:7)
Too
often we want people to conform to our expectations before we will embrace
them. If Christ had done that, none of us would be saved. Christ calls us to
embrace people as they are, and then grow together from there.
Be
completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. (Ephesians 4:2)
We
most often get impatient with others because they do not conform to our wishes.
The counter to that is to be humble and gentle. I like how C.S. Lewis defines
true humility. True humility is not thinking less of yourself, but thinking of
yourself less.
Be
kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ
God forgave you. (Ephesians
4:32)
One
of the hardest things for us to do is forgive. When we feel wronged, we want
justice. But we need to remember that if we received justice from God, we would
be doomed. Instead God has treated us with unbelievable compassion and
kindness. He calls us to do the same.
Submit
to one another out of reverence for Christ. (Ephesians 5:21)
We
live in a very competitive world. We are told constantly to stand up for our
rights, grab what we believe is owed to us, don’t let anyone get ahead of you.
I see that every time I drive on the freeway. There is always someone who just
can’t stand driving behind another car. As followers of Christ, we need to
reverse the popular trend and learn to submit to one another. Biblical
submission can be defined as voluntarily setting aside my needs, wants and
desires for the good of the other person. When we voluntarily submit to one
another, we grow stronger, not weaker.
Bear
with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one
another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. (Colossians 3:13)
None
of us are perfect. We all make mistakes along the way. If we will remember that
basic truth, it will be easier for us to bear with the mistakes of others and
forgive them.
Therefore
encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing. (1 Thessalonians 5:11)
This
is an exercise that is sorely needed, yet often neglected. There is so much
that discourages us today. We all need to be encouraged. You can do that for
someone by sending them a hand-written note, calling them on the phone just to
talk, or going out to coffee together. All of us can use an encouraging word to
strengthen us in an often-discouraging world.
And
let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds. Let
us not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but let us
encourage one another--and all the more as you see the Day approaching. (Hebrews 10:24-25)
Along
with encouraging one another, we need to have the courage to challenge one
another to grow in our faith. Most athletes will tell you that they make the
most progress when they train with and against someone else. That is why
corporate worship is so important to our spiritual health. An isolated
Christian is a vulnerable Christian and often a weak one as well.
Offer
hospitality to one another without grumbling. (1 Peter 4:9)
If I
could rephrase this, I would say, give joyfully of yourself to others.
Hospitality doesn’t have to be extravagant or complicated. It really means
sharing your life with another person. But to be effective it needs to be done
with the right attitude.
Just
as athletes discipline themselves daily to accomplish their goal, we need to
daily discipline ourselves to reach a much higher goal. None of the things that
the Bible tells us to do to be God’s team are impossible, or even that hard,
yet they all take intentionality and effort. If we would seek to practice these
disciplines regularly, they would transform our lives individually and
corporately.
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