Romans 12:3
For
by the grace given me I say to every one of you: Do not think of yourself more
highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober judgment, in
accordance with the measure of faith God has given you.
Each
morning, as I look in the mirror, I see more things that I don’t want to see. I
see more wrinkles on my face and less hair on my head. I see bags under my eyes
and a sagging neck. (My kids tease me that I have developed a waddle.) I also
see spots on my skin that were not there before. The image that I have in my
mind of me and the image I see in the mirror do not match.
Last
week, I attended a conference with a number of other pastors. As I listened to
the presentations, I felt like a young, rooky pastor. Then I realized that I
was as old, if not older, then most of the pastors there, and had as much, if
not more, experience. My perception of myself did not match the reality.
All
of us have a distorted view of ourselves. In many ways, we see ourselves as
better than we are. From a physical point of view, we usually think we are in
better shape than is true. This comes to light when we engage in some physical
activity and then wonder why our muscles ache so much. From a spiritual point
of view, we often think we are doing better than we are. This too comes to
light when our faith is put to the test.
Paradoxically,
we also see ourselves as worse than we are. I often fall into that trap;
downplaying my strengths. I compare myself to others and feel less than
adequate. I am timid to fully engage in activities that I am more than
competent in, because I am afraid I will not measure up. The fear of failure
can be a powerful de-motivator.
The
Apostle Paul challenges us to routinely look in the mirror, God’s mirror, to
get an accurate image of ourselves. When Paul tells us to think of ourselves
with sober judgment, he is instructing us to take an honest look at both our
strengths and our weaknesses. We can summarize what we will discover in two
ways.
From
a human point of view, we are far weaker than we think we are. Because of sin
in our lives, we are truly handicapped. Satan wants us to take pride in our own
abilities and to depend upon our own strength, but he is setting us up for a
fall. Jesus highlighted this malady in at least two of the churches mentioned
in Revelation 3; the church at Sardis and the church at Laodicea. To Sardis He
writes: These are the words of him who
holds the seven spirits of God and the seven stars. I know your deeds; you have
a reputation of being alive, but you are dead. (Revelation 3:1) And to
Laodicea He writes: You say, 'I am rich; I have
acquired wealth and do not need a thing.' But you do not realize that you are
wretched, pitiful, poor, blind and naked. (Revelation 3:17)The antidote
to this overinflated view of ourselves is found in 1 Peter 5:5-6. All
of you, clothe yourselves with humility toward one another, because, "God
opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble." Humble yourselves,
therefore, under God's mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time.
The
other side of the equation tells us that, in Christ, we are far stronger than
we think we are. Timothy struggled with a lack of confidence in his ability to
serve Christ and the Church. Paul reminded him that, when God calls us, He
empowers us. For God did not give us a spirit of timidity, but a spirit of power, of
love and of self-discipline. (2 Timothy 1:7) When we rest in the power
of Christ, we are more than competent to face the challenges of life. As Paul
wrote in Romans 8:37, No, in all these things we are more than
conquerors through him who loved us. The key for us is to tap into
Christ’s strength. Finally,
be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. Put on the full armor of God so
that you can take your stand against the devil's schemes. Ephesians
6:10-11
I
went to see my doctor yesterday, for a regular check-up. After we reviewed my
blood pressure and my lab results, we talked about the half marathon that I had
just run. He asked me if I would ever run a full marathon. I told him that I
would not, because my knees would not handle it. He leaned forward and said, “Do
you know what that is? That is wisdom.” Knowing our strengths and our limits is
wisdom, whether that is physically or spiritually. It is good for us to look in
the mirror on a regular basis. It helps us to keep an accurate view of who we
really are.
James 1:22-25
Do
not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says. Anyone
who listens to the word but does not do what it says is like a man who looks at
his face in a mirror and, after looking at himself, goes away and immediately
forgets what he looks like. But the man who looks intently into the perfect law
that gives freedom, and continues to do this, not forgetting what he has heard,
but doing it--he will be blessed in what he does.
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