Philippians 4:8
Finally,
brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is
pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or
praiseworthy--think about such things.
When you have done something unwise or dumb, you may hear the retort, “What were you thinking?” I have often said that to myself, after I have made an unwise choice.
We don’t
often acknowledge the reality that the things that occupy our thoughts also
shape our lives. Our thought life and our external actions are intricately
linked. This usually manifests itself in negative ways, unfortunately. We think
that someone is being rude to us, so we act rude to them. We think that we are
being treated unfairly, so we complain and make a scene. We think we are not
being valued, so we sulk. We think we are unloved, so we have a hard time
loving others. Our thoughts have a profound impact on our actions.
But
this can work the other way as well. When I think that I am loved and valued, I
can better love and value others. When I see the worth in others, I am able to
encourage and bless them. When I think about God’s grace and mercy shown toward
me, I am better able to extend grace and mercy to those around me.
What we
focus on in our mind manifests itself in our lives. Jesus made this very clear.
You brood of vipers, how can you who are evil say anything good? For out of
the overflow of the heart the mouth speaks. The good man brings good things out
of the good stored up in him, and the evil man brings evil things out of the
evil stored up in him. (Matthew 12:34-35)
We live
in a world that focuses on the negative. Constantly, day by day, we are
bombarded with negative thoughts. Most of what we see on the evening news or
read on the internet is negative. Because we are constantly exposed to this, we
begin to internalize it. We begin to see the world through a negative filter.
Our thoughts become dark and disturbing. This is exactly what Satan wants to
accomplish. By focusing on the negative, he can keep us off balance and
unfocused. We are tossed here and there by the latest controversy or tragedy.
There
is a better way. It is a two-step process. First, we need to intentionally,
actively dispense with the negative. Get rid of all bitterness, rage and
anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. (Ephesians
4:31) We cannot be passive about this. It takes effort to banish the negativity
that permeates our society. We can do this by eliminating, or at least limiting,
the negative voices that fill our minds with negative thoughts. We have to stop
feeding the negative.
Second,
we need to intentionally replace the negative with the positive. Just
eliminating negative input is not enough. It leaves a vacuum that will suck the
negative right back. Jesus addressed this in Matthew 12:43-45. "When an
evil spirit comes out of a man, it goes through arid places seeking rest and
does not find it. Then it says, 'I will return to the house I left.' When it
arrives, it finds the house unoccupied, swept clean and put in order. Then it
goes and takes with it seven other spirits more wicked than itself, and they go
in and live there. And the final condition of that man is worse than the first.
That is how it will be with this wicked generation." Our negative thinking must be actively
replaced with positive thinking. So Paul instructs us to reorient our thoughts
and our actions.
Finally,
brothers, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is
pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or
praiseworthy--think about such things. Whatever you have learned or received or
heard from me, or seen in me--put it into practice. And the God of peace will
be with you. (Philippians 4:8-9)
Be kind and
compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God
forgave you. (Ephesians 4:32)
We are
all in control of what shapes our thinking and our actions. We are our own
gatekeepers; only letting in what we want to come in. If we leave the gate open
to the prevailing thinking of the world, we will plunge into a negative
mindset. But if we guard the gate well, and focus on what God wants us to focus
on, our lives and our actions will be transformed in a positive way. So, what
are you thinking today?
Proverbs 4:23
Above all else,
guard your heart,
for it is the
wellspring of life.