Psalm 118:24
This is the day the Lord has made;
let us rejoice and be glad in it.
Today
begins a stretch of family time for me. My parents arrive today for a three
week visit. By the end of the week, my family will arrive for the week of
Christmas. This is a time we have been looking forward to and anticipating for
a long time. And we all know what will happen; it will be over all too quickly.
We spend months anticipating a special time and, when it comes, it flies by.
Have
you ever been in a hurry to get somewhere, and when you got there, you missed
your turn because you didn’t slow down? I think that is the way we often live
our lives. We are in such a hurry to get to the next thing that we fly by the
present. We miss the joy of the moment because we don’t know how to slow down.
Mary
and Martha were good friends of Jesus. Although we don’t have many details, it
seems that Jesus visited their home often. On one particular occasion, Martha
got so caught up preparing for Jesus’ visit that she missed it.
As Jesus and his disciples were on their way,
he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had
a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord's feet listening to what he said. But
Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to
him and asked, "Lord, don't you care that my sister has left me to do the
work by myself? Tell her to help me!"
"Martha,
Martha," the Lord answered, "you are worried and upset about many
things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it
will not be taken away from her." Luke 10:38-42
Although
we would like to think that we are like Mary, we are much more like Martha. We
tend to get caught up in the details of life, only to miss the joy of life. We
spend much time preparing and little time enjoying. That is especially true
during the Christmas season.
In a
broader sense, Jesus addressed our frantic lives in Matthew 6:31-34. So do
not worry, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What
shall we wear?' For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly
Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his
righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Therefore do
not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has
enough trouble of its own.
The challenge
that we all face is to prepare for the future, but to live in the moment. Even
as we prepare for some big event, we can slow down and enjoy the process of
getting ready. When the event comes, we can slow down and savor the joy of the
moment. And in everything, we can praise God for the gift He is giving to us
right then.
There
will be many amazing moments in the weeks ahead. Don’t be in such a hurry that
you miss them.